Getting married in France

Yes, absolutely. At Shades Waves, we assist many foreign couples in organizing their destination wedding in Franceeven if they don't live on site. Thanks to seamless coordination via videoconferencing, e-mail and tracking charts, you're guided every step of the way, from venue selection to D-day.

In theory, yes, but in practice, the process is complex. A civil marriage in France generally requires at least 40 days' residence in the commune where it is celebrated. That's why most of our couples opt for :

• a civil marriage in their country of originthen
• a symbolic ceremony or religious event in France, tailor-made by our team.

It all depends on the season, your wishes and the type of ceremony. It's possible to organize a elopement or intimate wedding in 3 to 6 months. For a weddings with more than 50 guestsA lead time of 9 to 12 months is ideal. We can also accommodate last-minute weddings if venues and suppliers are available.

We organize weddings all over France, including :

• in Provence and the Luberon
• on the Côte d'Azur (Saint-Tropez, Nice, Cannes, etc.).
• in Paris and Île-de-France
• in the Loire castles
• in the Bordeaux vineyards
• in the Alps for winter weddings

Each destination offers its own unique charm and exceptional places which we select according to your wishes.

Yes, we work with a network of experienced service providers (photographers, videographers, caterers, musicians, officiants) capable of working in English. We make sure that all exchanges are fluid and that each service provider fully understands your expectations.

Setting a clear budget : The first step to successful planning is to establish a realistic budget. Determine the total amount you can spend on your wedding and divide it between the various expense items. This will help you make informed decisions and avoid overspending.

Planning ahead: Start preparations 12 to 18 months before the planned date. This gives you enough time to book the best suppliers, choose the ideal venue and send out invitations well in advance.

Choosing the right service providers: Selecting reliable, professional service providers is crucial. Whether it's the caterer, the photographer or the DJ, make sure of their reputation and their ability to meet your expectations. Don't hesitate to ask for references and consult online reviews.

Communicating Effectively : Clear and regular communication with your partner, suppliers and guests is essential. Discuss your expectations, preferences and any changes in plans openly to avoid misunderstandings.

Plan B: Even with the best planning, the unexpected can happen. Having a plan B, especially for critical elements like location in case of bad weather, can save the day.

Delegate : Don't try to do everything yourself. Delegating certain tasks to trusted friends, family or a wedding planner can lighten your load and allow you to enjoy your day more.

By following these tips and staying organized, you'll increase your chances of having the wedding of your dreams, a celebration that reflects your love and your unique personality.

We support you in :

• booking accommodation for your guests
• the organization of transfers, shuttles or private transport
• the creation of welcome kits or customized programs
• organization of additional activities (dinners, visits, post-wedding brunch)

Every detail is designed to offer your guests a warm, seamless experience.
Our D-Day coordination service takes care of the logistical management of your wedding, ensuring that every element runs smoothly, allowing you to fully immerse yourself in the magic of your big day.

We also offer design and theme consultations, where we work with you to create a mood and style that reflects your personality and your love story. Whether you dream of an elegant, sophisticated wedding, an atypical celebration, or a bold, modern theme, we're here to turn your vision into reality.

We accompany couples looking for a unique, tailor-made experience, and offer personalized services. Whether it's finding the perfect venue, creating invitations that reflect your personal style, or organizing special entertainment, our dedicated team is on hand to ensure that every aspect of your wedding lives up to your expectations.

The budget depends on the type of wedding and the number of guests. Here's an estimate:

• Elopement or marriage for two from €6,000
• Intimate wedding (30 to 50 guests) from €15,000
• High-end wedding in a chateau from €30,000

We always offer a personalized quoteto suit your priorities and desired style.

No problem at all. We offer virtual toursregular exchanges, moodboards and detailed reports at every stage. Our role is to represent you on sitein complete confidence. You can arrive a few days before the wedding... and everything will already be ready.

Getting married in France as a foreign national is entirely possible, but requires compliance with a number of specific administrative formalities. You have two options: civil marriage legally recognized in Franceor a symbolic ceremony (secular) if you are already civilly married in your country of origin.

For a civil marriage in France :

• One of the future spouses must reside in France or have a family connection with the commune (parents, secondary residence, etc.).

• You will need to provide a complete file at the town hall: copies of birth certificates, passports, proof of address, certificate of celibacy or marriageability (depending on your country), with certified translation if required

• A deadline for publication of banns is mandatory (minimum 10 days)

• A individual interview can be requested from the town hall

Good to know: procedures may vary depending on your nationality. We can help you put together a file that complies with the regulations, and facilitate exchanges with the French authorities.

For a symbolic or secular wedding:

This is the formula most frequently chosen by foreign couples. It allows you to celebrate your union in complete freedom, in the location of your choice, with a dedicated officiant. This ceremony has no legal value, but it can be preceded or followed by a civil marriage in your home country.

Do you have any questions?
At Shades Waves, we'll guide you step by step to organize your wedding in France, whether you live in Europe, the United States, Asia or elsewhere.